Unlock your truth ~ Complete “the” Project ~ Come home to yourself
Hello! My name’s Jacky, I have run a 6-figure business, got out of debt, lived in 4 countries, and most recently I left all my comforts to relocate to the place my heart is most happy – but most importantly, I’m your host for Soul Code!
This is for the woman who wants to TRUST herself more deeply, LOVE herself more fully, and enforce her BOUNDARIES more readily.
So you can live a happy fulfilling life and helps you achieve your true desires. Meet that partner, sign that client, go on more adventures, be confident, and say no when you need to. You will become the purest badass version of yourself on this journey.
It is time to trust the calling, time to move closer, love deeper, and welcome back the women you forgot you were.
She is waiting, are you ready to embrace her again?
Are you sick of life, work, business, having no boundaries, the garden, office, house, finances, relationships, or lack thereof? Do you crave MORE but you don’t know what the means or how to get it?
I hear you, and was in the same place 3 years ago!
Everything looked almost great from the outside, but in reality, I was struggling to hold everything together. Each setback felt like another huge mountain to climb because I was so tired, and disconnected from myself.
I was on this whole journey to FIND MYSELF, but hadn’t realised that “finding oneself” is a load of nonsense… you were never lost!
Instead, I needed to relax and connect to what already existed inside me. I need to love myself more fiercely and find deeper gratitude for what I did have while still holding space for more. I need to accept that I can hold a huge vision and not get caught in the details of how. I needed to be more open, celebrate life more fully, and accept that I can have everything I desire, even if I don’t feel, look or present an Instagram-perfect life and business.
The release was exhilarating!
After learning, growing, and mastering the skills over 36 months, I wanted to share some lessons with you (if you feel the same)
- Loving yourself is not the easiest thing, we have been programmed to compare. So the practice is instead being kinder while we do. Seeing what others have indicates what we desire not what we can’t have. Shifting the energy to gratitude instead of envy will change everything.
- Staying on gratitude, DON’T just make a list, this is lip service. Gratitude is a feeling, legit being so happy that you want to cry, smile, and explode because your life is so good. You need to learn to tap into that feeling.
- Now onto Vision Boards, again just creating pretty pictures with no emotion won’t change your life. When your vision is a combination of what you want, but more importantly WHO you need to be to have those things. That is the true mastery questions you want to answer.
- Boundaries are a juicy one, I could tell you SO much about them, but let’s keep it simple for this post – You are responsible for creating and ENFORCING your boundaries. Just because you set them, doesn’t mean people will stick to them.
- Let’s talk Confidence! People think it is a switch, either on or off. This is NOT true. You increase your capacity slowly by doing things that scare you. I am not saying face your biggest fear right this second! But the moment you speak up, step out and go against your norm, those are all little moments that build your ability to be confident.
- You will have heard that self-care is not selfish. I want to say that IT IS selfish, and that is a GOOD THING!!! You should be selfish about looking after yourself. You are the most important thing in your life, without you (body and mind) nothing else exists. So be more selfish and get comfortable with looking after yourself.
- Healing is an interesting topic, it can happen so fast, but the build-up can take a while. You have to be ready for it, you have to want to let go, you have to accept that you are not the victim and mental shift into creative energy. Learning how to do this makes everything easier in life.
- Adventure opens the heart. The key is to know what adventure means to you. It doesn’t have to be huge, epic, or costly, but it does have to make you feel something (seeing a theme here!). Going to watch a sunset, surprising a friend with a thoughtful experience together, doing something that scares you just a little.
- As adults, we forget how to enjoy a moment, and have true FUN. Not taking life too seriously was a HUGE lesson I needed to learn. I was a grown-up very young, moving country alone at 19 makes one grow up. But now in my 30ths, I have learned to have fun, relax and just enjoy the moments, because they make up life.
- Celebrating the moments that move you forward, even if it is not the end result is critical for the journey. I used to set huge goals and then beat myself up all the way to achieving them. It was hard, tiring, and honestly not great for my mental health. Then I learned a new way of doing things. Celebrating the f*&K out of myself and my journey. Oh how much better life has become!
Lastly, release all the stories you make up about what SHOULD be. How you SHOULD act, what you SHOULD do, and the business you SHOULD run. All of that will hold you in an emotion that is sticky and heavy. Instead, learn to just be in the moment. Feel what is actually there and move with that feeling. Remember everything is a MOMENT, it will pass.
This 9 month program is the rebirth of the women you know you can be. Over 9 months we will explore the 8 learning codes that will help you achieve your dreams. You know that ONE project you have always wanted to do.
8 core learning codes:
- Divinity – who you are, self-care, healing
- Abundance – gratitude vs more, feeling, expanding into future
- Vision – how to vision differently, not what you want, be how you want to be
- I, her, me – boundaries, confidence, acceptance, get in touch with the true version of who you are
- Duality – love, ritual, all of you, shadow
- Adventure – openness, fun, playful
- Celebrate – moments, experiences, and life, not just results
- Emotions – releasing the story
Once you have learnt these skills you can reapply them to your life time and time again to keep the results you desire flowing.
Understand how to tap into yourself, create the life you have always dreamed of living, and do it in a way that feels aligned and good for you. Whatever goal you are aiming for, now is the time to become the person who can achieve it. New job, new love, a new adventure, more rest, more growth, and more confidence, are all possible for you now.
Soul Code
9 x instalments
£
88
00
Monthly
- 9 x live Zoom calls, with Voxer group chat
- Pre-course workbook for each module
- Monthly Meditations
Soul Code
Pay in Full
£
777
Once off
- 9 x live Zoom calls, with Voxer group chat
- Pre-course workbook for each module
- Monthly Meditations
- Bonus 30 minute 1:1 during the program
Unlock my Soul
Cheapest
Why Soul Code
In 2018 I was depressed, and in moments even suicidal. So much had changed, so much had been lost and I felt that I had lost myself along the way. The grief was huge, and the pain was unbearable at times, but like a good girl I carried on, with a smile on my face. I focused on saving all of those around me, not worrying if I drown along the way.
I buried my head, lost a huge contract in my business, spent money I shouldn’t have, said yes when my body was screaming no, and never felt like I was or had enough of anything.
On paper, I had it all, a house we owned, a husband that adores me, and a business that was hitting six figures, but the reality was far from that.
I had lost 4 immediate family members, buried us in debt, and was in high functioning burnout. I stayed in this place for almost a year, the pandemic hit, and honestly, it was probably the best thing that could have happened. I was focused to stop, forced to reassess. And in August 2020 I lost my grandfather, the catalyst of the change and the cracking open of me as a person.
I had been titering on the edge of survival, and this was the final straw, on my birthday I was thrown over the edge. The 5th person I had to say goodbye to in 3 years, it felt like I was being swallowed whole.
I realised it didn’t have to be this hard.
I started to move my body in a different way, meditate to touch my soul, talk to myself with more love and compassion, shift what I felt was possible for “a girl like me”, a lot of journaling, thinking, and changing my actions helped me.
But then I started to learn who I was, the power I hold, the way I am connected, and have a purpose for being on this earth.
And everything in my life started to change.
- I moved from depressed to content, calm and happy.
- I got to know myself better and listened to myself and my boundaries.
- I got comfortable looking after myself and didn’t feel selfish.
- I started going on adventures, exploring what I liked and disliked, and seeing the world around me.
- I learned how to be grateful, to give thanks, and feel it in my body, not just say the words.
- I trusted myself enough to heal, to move my emotions, to stand at the edge of the darkness and jump in because I learned to trust that I am the damn light.
- I said yes more to new friends, new adventures, holding retreats, and moving back to South Africa.
- I said NO more, to anything that made me feel bad, out of alignment, or not lit up.
- I got more connected, way healthy, moved my body, managed my emotions, and ate better.
Life got easier, more in flow, I learned how to cope, I ask for what I need, and I no longer suffer in silence.
I knew that I need to create Soul Code to help women move in the same way.
Logistics
This is a 9-month rebirth program. Focusing on completing a project that will change your life. This could be work, personal, charity or community-based.
You will have a live call each month to dive deep into the monthly topic, we will explore your boundaries, barriers, and beliefs.
Each month you will have a meditation, journal questions, and your own personal actions you set at the live session. You will have Mon-Fri Voxer support for questions, sharing wins, and the recordings of the session.
Live calls will be on the 3rd Monday of each month starting on 17 October.
Meet your host!
Jacky’s zest for life has seen her live in 4 countries, launch businesses, drive high performance sports cars, travel, and adventure around the globe.
But her boundless energy came with a price. After burning herself out twice, dealing with personal loss and grief, and hitting rock bottom, she realised that she had to learn a different way to live.
One with more balance than her previous full throttle life had allowed, but that still felt fulfilling and of value.
Through her personal journey through healing and recovery, she utilised her capacity to adapt, and learnt a while new way to exist, with more peace, more compassion, more balanced structure, reprioritising joy and love.
Following her heart and soul rather than the societal vision of success she had been sold as a young leadership professional.
Soul Code was born from her journey and now she is ready to share the code with you.
Soul Code
9 x instalments
£
88
00
Monthly
- 9 x live Zoom calls, with Voxer group chat
- Pre-course workbook for each module
- Monthly Meditations
Soul Code
Pay in Full
£
777
Once off
- 9 x live Zoom calls, with Voxer group chat
- Pre-course workbook for each module
- Monthly Meditations
- Bonus 30 minute 1:1 during the program
Unlock my Soul
Cheapest